Just a quick note to those who have access to our wedding website (sorry, our website is now password protected. Check your save the dates for the password or email/call one of us if you can't find it): I've added photos and cleaned up the photo album so there are a bunch of new pics as well as added our new address. Check it out when you get a chance!
Our wedding website
Friday, July 29, 2011
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Ceremony songs
I love this song. The only issue my fiance has with it is the line "It's our God forsaken right to be loved." It should be "God given right" since forsaken means to give up something, which is the opposite of what I think Jason meant. Otherwise, the lyrics don't make sense or fit the context of the song. I'm hoping I can find someone to sing this if we choose to have it in the ceremony. It'll be awesome, I'm sure. :^)
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Meditation links
Information on meditation
Meditation: Take a stress-reduction break wherever you are - MayoClinic.comThis is a guided meditation
I am really picky about meditation music and guided meditations because there are days, especially when I'm uber stressed out, that it can be difficult to concentrate and can be more frustrating than anything else. It took me forever to find the right type of music for me. One of my favorite artists to listen to is Scott August. He incorporates native american flute as well as nature/ambiance sounds. I also like Scottish and some new age music. Tibetan singing bowls can be beautiful also but depending on my mood, they can also be irritating. I don't like raindrops or the sound of waves crashing but I love thunderstorms and sometimes the sound of streams or fountains. I also like Lifescapes These are my personal preferences. If you've never meditated before, definitely try out different music, ambiance, and meditation methods to find what is right for you. The goal is to relax and de-stress and if you are annoyed by the music or the way that you are sitting/laying is uncomfortable or painful, find a way that works for you. Namaste :)
ball workouts to reduce stress (and yes, to lose weight and tone up if that is your desire)
Now, I don't necessarily believe that brides need to lose weight to be beautiful for their big day. However, stress from planning and resulting illnesses that can be caused by stress are another issue. Eating right and working out are key during this time before (and lets face it, after) the wedding, and it is especially good for stress reduction.
I have a yoga/exercise ball. After a cholesterol reality check from my doctor, I pulled it out and decided to look online for tips on yoga ball workouts. So, here you go! I'd recommend following any workout with a short meditation to bring you back down and to center yourself.
Monday, July 11, 2011
Say Yes to the Dress Bridesmaids episode
So, we got direct tv the past week and while watching TLC today (oooh about 5 minutes go) I came across the Say Yes to the Dress Bridesmaids edition. So, after watching episodes with bitchy, opinionated bridesmaids, here's something that I have to say. For all the bridesmaid divas out there, if you feel the need to dictate what you wear (and I'm not talking about gentle suggestions) - color, style, etc. and can't keep your negative opinions to yourself (and you end up ruining shit for your bride who is supposed to be someone who is important to you), here's some advice: It's not your wedding. Shut up, wear the dress, or be a guest and not a part of the wedding party.
For brides who feel the need to dictate every aspect of your bridal party, to the extent that you expect your bridesmaids to pay more than $300 for a bridesmaids dress, ease up. Take into consideration that they are bridesmaids, not the bride, that their finances may differ from yours, and a $500 bridesmaid dress may not be possible. You may think that you are doing them a great honor by having them in your wedding, and don't get me wrong, we are, but they are doing you a favor and are also honoring you by agreeing to be your bridesmaids. If you don't treat them right, you may end up standing with your FH alone at the alter.
When all is said and done, it's only a dress. The memories of the night should be more important than dresses and minor details that you won't remember 10 years down the road anyway. The whole point of the wedding is to marry the person you love and to party with those you care about and cherish. Nothing else matters.
For brides who feel the need to dictate every aspect of your bridal party, to the extent that you expect your bridesmaids to pay more than $300 for a bridesmaids dress, ease up. Take into consideration that they are bridesmaids, not the bride, that their finances may differ from yours, and a $500 bridesmaid dress may not be possible. You may think that you are doing them a great honor by having them in your wedding, and don't get me wrong, we are, but they are doing you a favor and are also honoring you by agreeing to be your bridesmaids. If you don't treat them right, you may end up standing with your FH alone at the alter.
When all is said and done, it's only a dress. The memories of the night should be more important than dresses and minor details that you won't remember 10 years down the road anyway. The whole point of the wedding is to marry the person you love and to party with those you care about and cherish. Nothing else matters.
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